First Steps on the Soulmate Path

If you’ve decided you want to experience a relationship with your soulmate, you might be wondering how to get about finding them. There are some questions you should ask yourself as you start looking.

Why do you want a soulmate relationship?

Meeting your soulmate is an inner journey that will result in growth. From what I’ve experienced, these special relationships are primarily about helping each other grow while in this life. Which means they do not have to be pleasant and are probably not going to rescue you from yourself. Be clear with yourself about why you want to take this journey.

Have you found yourself, yet?

Before they can find you, you need to find or know yourself, first. The intensity of the relationship can be overwhelming. The better you know yourself the easier it will be for each of you to handle being near each other. Also, by being yourself and engaging in life in an authentic manner your partner should find it easier to locate you.

Have you begun practices to calm the chaos and chatter of the monkey in your head? How are your spiritual and energetic boundaries?

The empathic and psychic bonds are likely to be profound. One or both of you holding a state of chronic chaos in your mind may create tensions and conflict between you. Feeling and knowing each knowing each other so deeply just makes things worse. Being able to hold boundaries at an energetic and spiritual level is important when experiencing this perspective of love. Clarity and personal center will be easier to hold with boundaries in place.